Working to find love

The self motivating techniques you use to achieve your goals doesn't have to end just in the gym the principle of self motivation can transcend into looking for love. When self motivating your self the small talks you give your self that tell you, you will succeed can be used when approaching the opposite sex. Similarly to the doubtful talks you mind gives you when you think you can't do a certain distance running or the last push in a press up and you motivate your self and tell your self you will achieve your goal is exactly what is needed to approach the opposite sex to whom you are attracted to.  And even if your aren't successful the fact that you tried and put yourself out there will be enough of a confidence boost to tell your self you've done it once you can do it again and not let one failure bring you down.